Connecting Through Touch - Physical and Beyond
Monday, March 31st, 2008By Michael Twomey From my experience there are many ways to touch someone because what you are really doing is touching emotions
So the next time you are interacting with someone or on a date you can play with some of these concepts and ideas and make them helpful habits. * Physical Touching : So you can be physical and can go from a handshake to a touch on the wrist. Or perhaps a light hand on their shoulder. Progressing to a more intimate touch such as a hand massage during a palm read. Also, for men you can gently guide your date through doorways by gently placing your hand on the small of her back. I often recommend that my clients learn massage, take some basic dance classes or take up yoga or martial arts so that they become more comfortable with their own bodies and with touch. And if you are a woman who wants your date to show you more affection then you can apply these concepts by making it easier for your date to touch you. You can show that you enjoy their touch so they will have the courage to show you more affection. Women who are not interested send out different signals to show this. Sometimes women can be more clear and men can learn to pay closer attention. This is often part of what I do for people. I help them to send out clearer signals of what they want from other people and from the world. Do your best to Calibrate ( notice ) the response of the person and progress from there. Also, whenever they laugh, smile or are looking into your eyes intently you should Anchor this with a touch, a look and/or a sound. For instance it is natural to smile at someone when they smile at you with a warm and genuine smile. An Anchor is a term from Hypnosis and Psychology that triggers certain emotions. The trigger can be physical, or something you hear or see, smell, taste, etc. Perhaps you can remember the song that was playing during your first slow dance. Maybe you can recall the scent of the first person you kissed or the first person who kissed you. In order for any of these concepts and techniques to work well you must be comfortable with physical touching and eye contact and feeling emotions so that your date will feel at ease. If you feel DIS-comfort then your date will feel UN-easy so you need to lead by example. The good news is that this is a form of Rapport and you just need to adjust your own state of mind and comfort level. So now that you are more comfortable with touching and talking with someone, they will follow your lead and grow more comfortable, too. There are also other ways to touch beyond physical and here are some of them : * Tonal Touching : You can use your Voice to touch someone. Whether on the phone or live in person. Imagine being able to bathe a person in the sound waves of your voice. Before I became a Professional Hypnotist I was a Musician and so in both careers I have learned the value of training your voice and using it well. * Visual Touching : You can shower someone with kisses, caresses, the sound of your voice AND the glow of your Eyes allowing them to feel special. I hope you enjoyed reading this and that this information has inspired you and helped you to improve your social life. This article is very basic and to learn more you can contact me. Michael Twomey is a Date Coach and Professional Hypnotist in NYC. He has helped many people to change their habits, beliefs and improve their lives. He lives with his beautiful, loving and talented wife, Maggie in Brooklyn. http://www.Adventures2Romance.com http://www.AdventuresinTrance.com Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Michael_Twomey http://EzineArticles.com/?Connecting-Through-Touch—Physical-and-Beyond&id=532432 zolpidemlong zolpidem ambien brain abuse ambien prescription ambien